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Grieving Hastings family front ‘courageous’ doco after son Reid O’Leary’s suicide

Mark Story
Mark Story
Deputy editor·Hawkes Bay Today·
12 Dec, 2025 04:00 PM4 mins to read

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After the tragic loss of their son Reid O’Leary (left), a family creates new school-wellness software to help others.

A trust formed by a Hastings family who lost their son to suicide is pushing to get digital support into every school in the country, starting with Hawke’s Bay.

The O’Leary family of four have fronted an achingly honest mini-documentary to get the ball rolling.

With friends, the whānau formed the Reid O’Leary Charitable Trust in memory of Reid, a mechanic who rocked his community by taking his life not long after his 21st birthday in 2020.

More than 1200 people attended “Reido’s” service in Hastings.

The trust recently launched its R.E.I.D (Reach, Empowerment, Insights, Development) Wellness programme.

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Hastings mechanic Reid O'Leary took his life not long after his 21st birthday.
Hastings mechanic Reid O'Leary took his life not long after his 21st birthday.

Trust member and family friend Russell Borschmann said that, to align with the launch, parents Keady and Karen, with Reid’s sisters Tyla and Eden, made a “courageous” decision to front the stirring documentary.

“It takes a lot to go in front of a camera and share the trauma they’ve been through,” Borschmann said.

“It shows from the tragedy they’ve developed a drive to make sure Reid has a legacy.”

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Powering their programme is a digital wellness platform, Linewize Pulse, which enables schools to identify students who need help, with a 60-second weekly check-in.

It targets students in Year 4 and above, and is available only on the school devices.

The tool is already in 26 Hawke’s Bay schools, ready for the 2026 school year.

Linewize Pulse’s digital wellness platform is already in 26 Hawke’s Bay schools.
Linewize Pulse’s digital wellness platform is already in 26 Hawke’s Bay schools.

A goal is to see it in all schools in New Zealand, “and eventually throughout the Pacific”.

“It [suicide] is at a crisis point, and whatever has to be done needs to be done.

“It’s evident in Reid’s death that people do suffer silently.

The push starts in Hawke’s Bay, with strong technology to identify struggling youth earlier and connect them to trusted adults in their schools who can help.

The trust funds the tool, which costs $6 per student per year.

“The trust wants to invest in schools on a three-year cycle, as too much of mental health funding in New Zealand is one year only, which is often cut off before a programme gets fully up and running.

“Hence, the trust needs $12m to fund all 667,000 students over Year 4 for three years.”

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Keystone sponsors were now being sought.

“With the right partners, New Zealand could become the first country in the world to offer every student this kind of protection.”

Sacred Heart College principal Maria Neville-Foster said the “quick, weekly check-in” was a valued tool in the school.

“It gives students a simple way to share how they’re feeling. That’s something we didn’t have before.”

Previously, the college couldn’t afford similar platforms, so the trust’s funding was embraced.

Neville-Foster said staff appreciated seeing how their students were feeling. “This helps to identify what the teacher could focus on in discussions.”

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Sacred Heart College principal Maria Neville-Foster says the wellness platform shines a valuable light on student welfare.
Sacred Heart College principal Maria Neville-Foster says the wellness platform shines a valuable light on student welfare.

Napier Girls’ High School deputy principal Megan Mannering agreed, saying the tool provided data to “back up any hunches”.

It helped students forge “life-long habits of regularly checking in with how they are feeling - and why”.

Linewize’s school wellbeing specialist, Andrew Sylvester, said schools urgently needed “real-time visibility” to address mental health challenges.

“Every day, school staff are faced with students who are struggling but can’t find the words to ask for help.”

He said the platform gave schools the “visibility to spot patterns” early and connect those students with the support they need.

“Too many young people like Reid suffer in silence. Technology can’t replace empathy, but it can give teachers and caregivers the early warning they need to intervene before it’s too late.”

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- Additional reporting by RNZ

SUICIDE AND DEPRESSION

Where to get help:

  • Lifeline: Call 0800 543 354 or text 4357 (HELP) (available 24/7)
  • Suicide Crisis Helpline: Call 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO) (available 24/7)
  • Youth services: (06) 3555 906
  • Youthline: Call 0800 376 633 or text 234
  • What’s Up: Call 0800 942 8787 (11am to 11pm) or webchat (11am to 10.30pm)
  • Depression helpline: Call 0800 111 757 or text 4202 (available 24/7)
  • Aoake te Rā – Free, brief therapeutic support service for those bereaved by suicide. Call 0800 000 053.
  • Helpline: Need to talk? Call or text 1737

If it is an emergency and you feel you or someone else is at risk, call 111.

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