An In Memoriam card was sent out soon after a funeral, as a memento of the person who had died. Many were framed, some glued into albums, while others forever kept in their envelopes. Less costly cards were simple, plain, yet elegant while the more expensive examples were heavily embossed in gold or silver leaf with filigree cut-work adorning the edges.
The wording on the card began with relatively simple statements such as 'In Affectionate Remembrance' or 'Sacred to the Memory of'.
Inside was usually a biblical verse or poetic stanza along with the name of the person, the occasion, date and place, all recorded neatly in print. Some cards contained additional statements which tantalisingly present further historical detail.
One such intriguing In Memoriam card in the collection relates to the passing of Samuel Pinder.
On the inside page of the card are three biblical references, which seek to comfort the bereaved and poignantly point to Samuel's unexpected death. On the opposite side is detail of his passing: "In Loving Remembrance of Samuel Pinder, Omaranui, [sic] Hawke's Bay. Who was drowned at Hakawhai, whilst crossing the Tutaekuri River, on Monday January 25th 1892, aged 26 years; Interred at Taradale Cemetery, January 28th, 1892."
On October 16, 1889, Samuel, a contractor and farmer who resided at Ōmarunui, married Agnes, youngest daughter of James Marshall of Petāne, at Aberfeldie. Two years later, he was successful in obtaining a roading contract in the Patea district, South Taranaki.
On January 25, 1892, after days of incessant rain, causing the Tūtaekurī River to flood, he and workmate John George were returning home to Ōmarunui from Patea, Samuel driving a wagon and team of horses, while John rode on horseback.
The intrepid travellers, faced with the swollen river, safely negotiated it several times until at nightfall when they reached Hakawhai near Woodthorpe and encountered a "fresh" or rush of water at a ford in the river.
John considered the ford too dangerous and refused to cross, whereas Samuel, keen to get home to his wife and daughter, was confident the river could be navigated safely. As a precaution he removed the horses from the wagon, and mounting one, rode into the flooded waters driving the others before him. In the gathering darkness John could see the horses reach the far bank, but could not discern any sign of Samuel.
Early the following morning, the floodwaters having receded, John was able to cross the river safely. Once on the other side, he rounded up the horses and began unsuccessfully to search for his friend, until despairingly he rode to Taradale to alert Constable Leitch. The constable organised several search parties to scour the area and in the late afternoon Samuel's body was found some distance below the crossing.
The corpse was conveyed to the Puketapu Hotel where an inquest was held in front of an all-male jury. The verdict given was that the "deceased was accidentally drowned while endeavouring to ford the Tutaekuri River at the Hakawai [sic] crossing on the evening of the 25th of January".
The Hawke's Bay Herald further announced that Samuel Pinder "was greatly respected, and much sympathy felt for his widow and other relatives".
Fortunately, two weeks prior to his death, Samuel had astutely taken out a Government Life Insurance policy for £300, and this was paid to Agnes his widow within three weeks of his drowning. The Hawke's Bay Herald claimed it "being met so quickly is worthy of commendation".
On January 28 Samuel was buried in Taradale Cemetery. His headstone reads: "In memory of Samuel Pinder who was drowned in Tutaekuri River Jan 25 1892, aged 26 years. So loved, so mourned."
• Gail Pope is social history curator at the MTG.
