In the end, the good reason - to shock others into taking more care on the road - just wasn't reason enough.
Reporter Morgan Tait told me it was a gloomy atmosphere all round - weather, the scene, and the mood of those present.
I don't know the man. As I write this, I don't even know if he has a family. But one could only imagine that such horror would not only be impacting somewhere in the hours that followed, but that the impact on family and friends could only be exacerbated by the time of year.
Any righteousness on my part in the name of "educating" the public just didn't sit right.
When I told Duncan of my photo choice, he offered no argument. His only words were, "hope we don't have another one of those over this period".
It won't be in the Christmas-New Year road toll, but the death of a man in his 40s about 10am on December 24, 2012 was a Christmas tragedy.