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Editorial: Flaxmere's sins of the father

By Mark Story
Hawkes Bay Today·
23 Mar, 2018 07:00 PM2 mins to read

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Flaxmere's Colosseum needs renovating, writes Mark Story

Flaxmere's Colosseum needs renovating, writes Mark Story

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There's an angst-ridden scene in the 2000 film Gladiator where Marcus Aurelius tells his son Commodus that he won't succeed him as Rome's emperor.

Explaining Commodus' shortcomings, he says: "Your faults as a son is my failure as a father". Romans were apparently the exemplars of accountable parenting.

For whatever reason the emperor's quote resonated this week after debating with colleagues the cause of the ramped-up youth violence in Flaxmere.

Regardless of your stance on the merits of original sin, few would argue babies are born bad.

What happens in the lives of these beautiful children between original innocence and incarceration? What unspeakable trauma must these kids experience in the interim?

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Headlines in the past month have focused on youth alleged to have committed heinous acts; but of course the real question most are asking, is, where are the parents?

This week the idea of a children's curfew was aired. But that would assume kids are safe in their homes.

Yet for many of these kids inclined to mete out violence to others, this just isn't true.

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One Flaxmere commentator this week claimed these children are often safer on the streets than in their living rooms.

It'd be hard to stumble across a more sobering piece of social commentary than that.

Is it time to introduce more strident parental accountability laws? Maybe it's an option.

We'd do well to consider that most of us have been fortunate enough to escape the friendly fire of family violence; we forget that today's negligent parents were yesterday's neglected kids.

Those who boast a comfortable childhood are eminently comfortable passing judgment on those who missed an Edenic start.

Before hitting the mattress every night I religiously check on my sleeping children - but I was shown that by my parents.

Marcus Aurelius was right to a degree - the faults of delinquent kids destined for Flaxmere's Colosseum are, with rare exception, the failings of their parents, and often their parents before them.

It's the basis of the biblical (Exodus) reference to the Sins of the Father - where the iniquities of one generation pass to another.

Flaxmere's blame is historic - but its consequence is now.

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