They talk, reflect and wonder what the hell is behind this anger. They come to the conclusion that even though they are very angry indeed at his treatment of them, maybe their anger is nothing compared to his. They muse on perspective – maybe their anger would almost be happiness to the toad.
This is deep stuff, and children are capable of undergoing this type of thinking, given the chance. It would be interesting to read the story and see what their thoughts are.
Throughout the book there are stories about pointless arguments, loneliness, contrary and belligerent behaviour, putting up with friends who annoy you because they're your friends, doing stuff you don't really want to because you know it will make someone happy.
These are things that are human, and make people and relationships complicated. Confronting such thoughts and behaviours as children, figuring them out and acknowledging them, has to be a good thing.
It's also reassuring to know that no one is perfect, we're all irritating to someone, but we can still be loved, liked, and function as a member of society.
No One is Angry Today is unusual in that its messages are not immediately handed to the reader. Conversations should ensue to dig out what's happening. It's a fascinating book, great for young thinkers of about 3 or 4 years and up.