The world, it seems, has moved on to more immediate, less personal forms of communication. We are now bombarded with emails, text messages, tweets and Facebook posts on a daily basis.
Usually, these come in the form of short snippets of information aimed at giving you an update on what is going on in your friends' lives. A highlights reel, if you will.
Rarely, though, is anything personal divulged. Life's challenges, its ups and downs, might be announced and commented on briefly via a few words of support in a Facebook post but rarely are they discussed in any depth.
Life's calamities remain private, so that even as we live in a world where instant communication is at our fingertips, many find themselves alone.
Perhaps long-term Tauranga letter writer Mary Brooks - when discussing the changing forms of communication - put it best: "I got a letter last Christmas from a friend who said "Next year, I'm not sending cards. I'm emailing 'Happy Christmas'," and I thought that is such a shame," she said.
"At birthdays and Christmas time one should send cards. I don't wish that by email - it's rude."