It was a Wednesday, what was I thinking? "Come out for dinner with us," said my friend Michael. "Brad Tiller from Isabel Vineyard is bringing a bunch of his wines over and the team at Cook 'n' With Gas on Worcester Boulevard has designed a menu to match. It'll be a relaxed, fun, but quiet night."
Fast forward to a freezing Thursday morning and I'm lying in bed wearing my son's dinosaur-costume onesie and doing my best to gnaw through a pie. I need to line my stomach with something stodgy because I am, for the first time in forever, so hungover it hurts to even breathe. I am furious with myself. What happened? Why did I suddenly throw the moderation message in the boring drawer and make a complete womble of myself on a Wednesday night?
I'm also wondering how on earth my favourite pot plant stand got snapped in half and why there are seven pieces of half-eaten toast scattered around the bedroom floor. Next to the toast is a pile of my clothes: the sleeves of my blazer are stuck down the legs of my jeans alongside my socks and undies and one cup of my bra is bunched up inside a pocket.
I remember arm-wrestling. The beer-stained patch on the elbow of said blazer confirms this. I also remember drinking things that were on fire. Shots of flaming liquid with people I had only just met, people who, like me, were grownups with responsibilities and should know better.
The evening began innocently enough, listening to Brad Tiller talk of wine trade types about Isabel Vineyard. Brad is the son of Robyn and Michael Tiller, who established Isabel in 1980 on Hawkesbury Rd in the heart of Marlborough's Wairau Valley. And 2014 represents 30 vintages for his family, although they're still very much a brand that, until now, has flown under the radar. Their four children all now work in the business and Brad has moved on from managing the vineyard to become their brand ambassador "which is short for glorified sales rep", he laughs. For the past three decades the Tillers have quietly beavered away at choosing which varieties are most suited to their soils and securing valuable overseas contracts. "We are very much an export-focused brand, that was always my parents' intention - but now we've decided it's time to give the New Zealand market much more love," he says.