Bay of Plenty Times
  • Bay of Plenty Times home
  • Latest news
  • Business
  • Opinion
  • Lifestyle
  • Property
  • Sport
  • Video
  • Death notices
  • Classifieds

Subscriptions

  • Herald Premium
  • Viva Premium
  • The Listener
  • BusinessDesk

Sections

  • Latest news
  • On The Up
  • Business
  • Opinion
  • Lifestyle
  • Property
    • All Property
    • Residential property listings
  • Rural
    • All Rural
    • Dairy farming
    • Sheep & beef farming
    • Horticulture
    • Animal health
    • Rural business
    • Rural life
    • Rural technology
  • Sport

Locations

  • Coromandel & Hauraki
  • Katikati
  • Tauranga
  • Mount Maunganui
  • Pāpāmoa
  • Te Puke
  • Whakatāne
  • Rotorua

Media

  • Video
  • Photo galleries
  • Today's Paper - E-Editions
  • Photo sales
  • Classifieds

Weather

  • Thames
  • Tauranga
  • Whakatāne
  • Rotorua

NZME Network

  • Advertise with NZME
  • OneRoof
  • Driven Car Guide
  • BusinessDesk
  • Newstalk ZB
  • Sunlive
  • ZM
  • The Hits
  • Coast
  • Radio Hauraki
  • The Alternative Commentary Collective
  • Gold
  • Flava
  • iHeart Radio
  • Hokonui
  • Radio Wanaka
  • iHeartCountry New Zealand
  • Restaurant Hub
  • NZME Events

SubscribeSign In
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Home / Bay of Plenty Times / Lifestyle

What's the best age to have a baby?

By by Michele McPherson - with APN News and Media
Columnist, Bay of Plenty Times and Rotorua Daily Post·Bay of Plenty Times·
21 Jun, 2011 10:53 PM3 mins to read

Subscribe to listen

Access to Herald Premium articles require a Premium subscription. Subscribe now to listen.
Already a subscriber?  Sign in here

Listening to articles is free for open-access content—explore other articles or learn more about text-to-speech.
‌
Save

    Share this article

Those in the baby business in the Western Bay have questioned Australian research which suggests the perfect age for a woman to start a family is 29.
Australian Health Department figures showed 59 per cent of women felt they were best placed to procreate at the end of their 20s because
it was when they were most secure - financially and in their relationships.
Plunket clinical advisor for the Midlands Region Marianne Grant did not agree with the suggestion of a perfect age for procreation.
"I don't think there is a perfect age, everybody's in a different place in their life cycle. I'd say it's across the gamut. For some people 18 is great, for some people it's 40," she said.
Mrs Grant said for some women career might take a leading role in their life while for others the right person remained elusive.
"It might take you a little while to find the right partner, while others find them straight away," she said.
Tauranga midwife Shirley Marriott also disagreed with the suggestion of a perfect age.
"From my experience it's not necessarily age that's important. I've seen women in their early 40s have beautiful, easy, normal labours and I've also seen that with teenagers and people in their 20 and 30s."
Mrs Marriott agreed with the idea that the best time to have a baby was when a woman was secure financially and in a relationship.
"I totally agree with it but I don't think you could put a stamp of age on it," she said.
Michelle Elkayem, who lives in Christchurch, was 30 when she had her first child and said she was glad she waited.
Her daughter, Kyla, is now 2 and Mrs Elkayem is six months pregnant with a boy.
Originally from Florida, Mrs Elkayem met her husband there when she was 21.
She said the couple wanted to wait until they had travelled and "been young for a while" before they settled down.
"We wanted to stay young longer and we didn't rush into anything ... we had a lot of life experiences first."
However, waiting until she was 30 did give the couple some problems.
"The only problem was that if we'd done it a few years earlier, we wouldn't have been set in our ways. I think because we did have so much time as a couple, it meant that we struggled a bit to adapt to having a child."
Mums on Top director Marilynn McLachlan posted a comment on the support group's Facebook page asking what mothers thought the perfect age was to start a family.
"It seems to be life stage, rather than age stage. We've got responses from young mums to mums in their 30s and they're all saying that they're happy with the age they chose and they wouldn't take it back," she said.
Mrs McLachlan was 22 when she had her first child and although she did not go on an OE, she said she was glad she chose that age because it was much easier on her body. "When you're that young your body bounces back ... but I really don't think there is a perfect age to start having kids."
Kiwi Families' director Rochelle Gribble said there would always be complications with having children, no matter what age women started a family.
"If you have children later, you're more established in your career but it's difficult to then maintain that. But if you're younger when you start having children, it's harder to get back into the workforce."

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Save

    Share this article

Latest from Lifestyle

Bay of Plenty Times

Robyn Malcolm, Toni Street, Kiri Nathan and Cassie Roma share defining moments

26 Jun 10:00 PM
Bay of Plenty Times

Tauranga couple's 'amazing journey' to parenthood

20 Jun 05:00 PM
Lifestyle

What the inaugural Jetstar flight from Hamilton to Sydney was really like

16 Jun 08:16 PM

There’s more to Hawai‘i than beaches and buffets – here’s how to see it differently

sponsored
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Latest from Lifestyle

Robyn Malcolm, Toni Street, Kiri Nathan and Cassie Roma share defining moments

Robyn Malcolm, Toni Street, Kiri Nathan and Cassie Roma share defining moments

26 Jun 10:00 PM

They were keynote speakers at this year's Business Women’s Network Speaker Series.

Tauranga couple's 'amazing journey' to parenthood

Tauranga couple's 'amazing journey' to parenthood

20 Jun 05:00 PM
What the inaugural Jetstar flight from Hamilton to Sydney was really like

What the inaugural Jetstar flight from Hamilton to Sydney was really like

16 Jun 08:16 PM
'Quite fun': Hamish's quail egg business takes flight

'Quite fun': Hamish's quail egg business takes flight

16 Jun 12:09 AM
From early mornings to easy living
sponsored

From early mornings to easy living

NZ Herald
  • About NZ Herald
  • Meet the journalists
  • Newsletters
  • Classifieds
  • Help & support
  • Contact us
  • House rules
  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms of use
  • Competition terms & conditions
  • Our use of AI
Subscriber Services
  • Bay of Plenty Times e-edition
  • Manage your print subscription
  • Manage your digital subscription
  • Subscribe to Herald Premium
  • Subscribe to the Bay of Plenty Times
  • Gift a subscription
  • Subscriber FAQs
  • Subscription terms & conditions
  • Promotions and subscriber benefits
NZME Network
  • Bay of Plenty Times
  • The New Zealand Herald
  • The Northland Age
  • The Northern Advocate
  • Waikato Herald
  • Rotorua Daily Post
  • Hawke's Bay Today
  • Whanganui Chronicle
  • Viva
  • NZ Listener
  • Newstalk ZB
  • BusinessDesk
  • OneRoof
  • Driven Car Guide
  • iHeart Radio
  • Restaurant Hub
NZME
  • About NZME
  • NZME careers
  • Advertise with NZME
  • Digital self-service advertising
  • Book your classified ad
  • Photo sales
  • NZME Events
  • © Copyright 2025 NZME Publishing Limited
TOP