5. Do you go to the gym?
I don't do group fit classes. I prefer to exercise alone. I do yoga and I walk and do some weights, stuff like that. I don't go to the gym.
6. Where did you meet Neil Finn?
I don't know if he'd remember but I met him in the very early days of Crowded House. They were doing some small shows in Auckland. I was playing in the Netherworlds and was introduced through some record guys. When he came back to New Zealand he decided he wanted local management. I've never regretted the Netherworld Dancing Toys decision. I've worked with guys like Neil now and I understand how good you have to be, the talent required, and how driven. Neil works hard.
7. What was it like working in the big music companies in the 90s?
It was fun, and we had lots of resources and perks and did some good work. I never got too caught up in [the hedonism] because otherwise you can't function. You crash and burn. I'd grown up playing in a band so I didn't feel the need to do it again. For a period of time it was easy to make money - if you're selling CDs for $30 and they cost $3 to make. That meant companies got a bit flabby so when they were challenged by the internet, we didn't handle it well.
8. When have you been at your lowest, and how did you pull yourself out?
My first marriage ended and both my parents died at about the same time when I was 42. I wasn't used to things not going my way and I found it all a bit difficult to process. But I liked being single a lot. I bought a little house at Piha and I rented a place in Titirangi close to my family. I learned to play the piano and did some yoga and just really calmed right down. I thought that was going to be how things were. Getting married again wasn't my plan.
9. But you did marry again?
Yes. To Julia. She's the business. We met through work when I was at Sony, five years after my marriage split. I was 51 when we had Cilla. I also have Ruby, who's 23, and Awhina, a first-year law student. What's the best and worst of a second family? The best is seeing the big girls fall in love with their little sister and their stepmother, and everyone feeling happy and secure in the new environment. The worst is the thought of leaving too soon - I need to live to at least 100.
10. Which musician have you worked with who you thought would go further?
Che [Fu]. I'm really surprised and disappointed [that he hasn't]. He was one of the most naturally talented of everyone. Working with big record companies, there's always compromise involved. You're making artists fit a commercial model. I think all of them got a bit burned by that.
11. What is the best of life for you?
I thought by the time I got into my 50s I would be stalled or stagnant but I've been lucky, the combination of a happy and dynamic family life, good friends and colleagues and still actively learning and thinking about everything is a real joy. I recently had a month at a business school in France which was incredible. Les Mills is exploding and Neil's doing all this great work. I really like being alive.
12. Write your own epitaph.
Not yet.