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Nicola Patrick: Time to recharge after full-on year

By Nicola Patrick
Whanganui Chronicle·
24 Dec, 2016 02:25 AM4 mins to read

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SPACE-TIME ODDITY: David Bowie ... was he really holding 'the fabric of the universe' together?

SPACE-TIME ODDITY: David Bowie ... was he really holding 'the fabric of the universe' together?

IT'S TIME to reflect on the past 12 months ...

Personally, it's been a year of change - shifting back to Whanganui, changing jobs, campaigning for election, buying a house and shifting (again), starting as a councillor.

Phew, I feel weary. Not quite bone tired, but getting close.

I'm thankful I get a proper break away from working and parenting - I have a full week without my boys and, while I will miss them, I will enjoy the change of pace.

This year has been the first that I have had Christmas work functions for quite some time. The past five years of working from home were great for flexibility and focus, but haven't offered the same amount of face-to-face fun times.

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Working with Te Kaahui o Rauru has been amazing and so enjoyable, even if I've been coming to grips with the everyday frustrations and complex constraints faced by iwi, Treaty settlement or not.

My connections with my Horizons colleagues still have a way to go but positive signs are coming thick and fast. I am impressed with the excellent first steps being taken around carbon-friendly action, and was pleased to get my first motion through after a bumpy start.

Apart from my personal foray into politics, which was both exhilarating and exhausting, 2016's global politics sucked a bit extra out of me.

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To be honest, Trump's election makes me more than nervous, and the unbelievable horror of Syria continued on.

Plus the earthquakes. I'm no fan of earthquakes and the widespread shakes this year have me on edge. Another hottest year on record, too - can it be turned back?

Oh, and David Bowie died - there's a meme going around that it was Bowie holding the fabric of the universe together and his premature departure is somehow to blame for the crazy year.

If you're looking for some youthful optimism, however, at least at a New Zealand politics level, check out the talented Green Party candidates heading into the list process before next year's general election. All aged 35 or under, these four women leave me with hope - Chloe Swarbrick, Hayley Holt, Leilani Tamu and Golriz Ghahraman.

Another optimistic practice I read about recently is throughout the year to write down your successes, small or large, or experiences that have made you happy on a small piece of paper and put it in a jar. Then, at the end of the year, you read over them and focus on the positive.

I already use my Facebook page as a filtered diary of sorts, capturing the gorgeous images of my children growing up, and, for the most part, ignoring the challenges.

From time to time, I'll post a more honest anecdote about my warts-and-all reality of raising children, and usually get a swarm of sympathetic responses. So I like my Facebook feed being the edited highlights - it makes for some nice memories, at least.

So my advice about social media is don't believe everything is as good as it looks and hold a bit of space in your heart to be kind to others who may be doing it tough, shiny happy posts or not. Actually, look after yourself, too - especially after this torrid year.

Some more good advice (thanks to social media again): "Treat yourself the way you would treat a small child. Feed yourself healthy food and spend time outside. Put yourself to bed early. Take naps. Don't say mean things to yourself. Don't put yourself in danger."

Finally, spare a thought for those still doing long hours during the festive season - our police officers, ambulance officers and other health workers including those caring for the elderly, plus people in hospitality and in tourism, and more. Thanks for taking care of us.

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**Nicola Patrick is a Horizons regional councillor, a Sustainable Whanganui trustee and works for Te Kaahui o Rauru. A mother of two boys, she has a science degree and is a Green Party member

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