They are now back together.
Earlier in the night, before the alleged offending, the complainant had consensual sex with another man at his barracks after meeting up with him after an Oktoberfest party at the army base.
Mr Tennet asked whether the complainant met up with the man outside the party rather than leave the party with him because she was worried about gossip.
"Did you say to [him] that you were concerned about gossip?" he asked.
"I'm always worried about gossip," the complainant replied. "You don't want everyone knowing everything about you."
Crown prosecutor Megan Jaquiery asked the complainant why she called her ex partner before her mother or sister.
"We had been together for a while, we'd been through bad stuff together," the complainant replied.
"At the time I just felt comfortable calling him."
She said she didn't want to call her mother and wake her at that time of night, and didn't want her father finding out and trying to "fix it himself".
The trial will continue until Thursday or Friday.