Destiny says the pageant has allowed her to develop new skills associated with public engagement, charity work and self-confidence. It has given her the courage to publicly share about her cousin for the first time.
"I am only one voice out of millions, but making a change starts with one voice."
Destiny says the violent act that killed her cousin broke her heart and ripped the family apart.
"One act left a young child without a mother — Tara's daughter's life has changed forever because of one person's actions."
Destiny wants to share her story in the hope that victims would feel encouraged to speak out.
"If you are being abused, talk to someone, anyone — an adult, police officer or counsellor."
"If you are the perpetrator — stop. Take a step back and think about how you are damaging someone's life."
Tara Brown was murdered by Lionel Patea.
IF YOU'RE IN DANGER NOW
• Phone the police on 111 or ask neighbours or friends to ring for you. • Run outside and head for where there are other people. • Scream for help so that your neighbours can hear you. • Take the children with you. • Don't stop to get anything else. • If you are being abused, remember it's not your fault. Violence is never okay
