Heta said she understood the man was having a difficult time and while he had family links in Otangarei he did not come from there.
"He made a mess but at least he's owned up to it," she said.
When people saw the damaged, the three photos smashed off the wall, holes in the wall, and glass strewn across the floor, there was a lot of crying and anger, Heta said.
The glass in the main door was being repaired for free and it was hoped someone else would lend a hand to fix the walls. The photos would be reframed and hung again.
Heta said the community hoped to gather yesterday afternoon at the marae with the man to talk over what had happened.
Community leader Martin Kaipo said attacking a marae had the same implications as attacking a cemetery or a church.
"A marae is as sacred as you can get," Kaipo said.
He said the incident highlighted the fact some people did not follow the teachings of their elders and instead followed some other teaching.
He said the community had rallied early yesterday and some were anxious to get the marae cleaned.
Police confirmed a 23-year-old man was arrested and charged with burglary. He was released on bail to appear in the Whangārei District Court next Tuesday.