SBW saw things from another perspective and realised the threat was minor.
He walked Charlie back to his seat and then gave him his RWC medal.
The escort from SBW, a friendly man hug, the beanie that Liam Messam stuck on Charlie's head, and maybe a selfie would probably have been enough. After all, Charlie broke a few rules.
It is harsh to suggest that SBW was being deliberately respectful with his gift, and somehow cheapening the medal, and what it stood for. He was trying to be nice.
With the benefit of hindsight, the security guard wouldn't flatten a 14-year-old fan and SBW would have kept his medal - a smile and a selfie would have sufficed.
It was an act of kindness informed by what he had seen, and influenced by emotions that not many people get to experience. In that regard, many of us - me included - are certainly entitled to express our views on what happened.
But until we too get to win a RWC final, and experience those thought clouding emotions, we probably remain poorly qualified to pass judgment on the act.