He was trying to make it easier for her; she, as always, was determined to be treated as normal, he said.
"You don't really tell the Governor General to go away, and not in my house. But I did go," Sir Jerry told the audience about the young woman who later jokingly referred to him as "Uncle Jerry".
He also recounted how she telephoned him to ask him to be the patron of the foundation she was setting up. "I got the strong impression I didn't have a choice."
Sir Jerry ended his informal speech saying: "She was a remarkable person and someone all New Zealanders should be proud of."
The event started with a powhiri at Pehiaweri Marae, then moved to Barge Park where the Muriwai family led proceedings, and tributes to Ms Muriwai were given.
Having grown up with the debilitating illness, Esther-Jordan was aware of the difficulties families experienced without a support network.