The accused had several family and friends in court to support him during the brief appearance before Judge Louis Bidois.
The man's lawyer, Russell Boot, asked for his client to be granted interim name suppression which was not opposed by police.
Judge Bidois granted the suppression request and remanded the accused in custody without plea to reappear in the Tauranga High Court next month.
Meanwhile, friends have taken to Facebook to express their loss.
One friend described Copestake as a soldier, a brother, an uncle, a son and overall good guy.
"You made everyone around you happy and always put a smile on my family's face, you mean a lot to so many people and you will be truly missed," another wrote.