Bay of Plenty Times
  • Bay of Plenty Times home
  • Latest news
  • Business
  • Opinion
  • Lifestyle
  • Property
  • Sport
  • Video
  • Death notices
  • Classifieds

Subscriptions

  • Herald Premium
  • Viva Premium
  • The Listener
  • BusinessDesk

Sections

  • Latest news
  • On The Up
  • Business
  • Opinion
  • Lifestyle
  • Property
    • All Property
    • Residential property listings
  • Rural
    • All Rural
    • Dairy farming
    • Sheep & beef farming
    • Horticulture
    • Animal health
    • Rural business
    • Rural life
    • Rural technology
  • Sport

Locations

  • Coromandel & Hauraki
  • Katikati
  • Tauranga
  • Mount Maunganui
  • Pāpāmoa
  • Te Puke
  • Whakatāne
  • Rotorua

Media

  • Video
  • Photo galleries
  • Today's Paper - E-Editions
  • Photo sales
  • Classifieds

Weather

  • Thames
  • Tauranga
  • Whakatāne
  • Rotorua

NZME Network

  • Advertise with NZME
  • OneRoof
  • Driven Car Guide
  • BusinessDesk
  • Newstalk ZB
  • Sunlive
  • ZM
  • The Hits
  • Coast
  • Radio Hauraki
  • The Alternative Commentary Collective
  • Gold
  • Flava
  • iHeart Radio
  • Hokonui
  • Radio Wanaka
  • iHeartCountry New Zealand
  • Restaurant Hub
  • NZME Events

SubscribeSign In
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Home / Bay of Plenty Times

Marcel Currin: Cripes, there's so many creeps about

Bay of Plenty Times
30 May, 2014 04:00 AM4 mins to read

Subscribe to listen

Access to Herald Premium articles require a Premium subscription. Subscribe now to listen.
Already a subscriber?  Sign in here

Listening to articles is free for open-access content—explore other articles or learn more about text-to-speech.
‌
Save

    Share this article

This is the story of a murderer, a hashtag and a worldwide protest against creepy men.

It starts with Elliot Rodger, 22, who was by all accounts not particularly well in the head.

It seems Rodger had twisted himself into an ugly knot of hate because none of the women he found attractive liked him back.

Tormented by this rejection, Rodger planned what he called "a day of retribution" to punish the women who weren't attracted to him.

We know this because he posted a stream of misogynist rants on various places online, including a Youtube video which has now been removed.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

He also emailed a long manifesto to his family and to his therapist.

Then last Friday in Isla Vista, California, he went on a shooting rampage before ending his own life.

On any other day that story might get written off as the tale of one sick psycho in an otherwise sensible world, but thanks to Twitter it became a catalyst for something much bigger.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

The fact that Rodger actually acted out his threats captured the attention of women who began to tweet about their own experiences of being threatened by men.

They were joined by more women, and then more. The tweets boomed into a collective protest directed at the entire spectrum of sexual abuse and harassment, from rape to leering co-workers.

The tweets were united under the hashtag #YesAllWomen. A hashtag works like a link. You can put a hash in front of any word in your tweet and it will create a link to every other tweet that happens to be using that same hashtag.

Most hashtags wither and die in obscurity, but some gather momentum and "trend".

Discover more

Marcel Currin: Scrabbling about like a cat on a frosty tin roof

06 Jun 02:00 AM

Marcel Currin: I'm trying not to lie to myself ... honest

13 Jun 02:00 AM

Marcel Currin: How proper football should be played

20 Jun 01:59 AM

For nearly a whole week, the hashtag #YesAllWomen sat at the top of the list of trending topics on Twitter.

At first I didn't know what to make of it. "Yes all women?" What does that even mean?

The best explanation comes straight from one of the tweets, which reads: "Because every single woman I know has a story about a man feeling entitled access to her body. Every. Single. One. #YesAllWomen."

This is where it gets real for us ordinary guys who assume we're not part of the problem. The story of Elliot Rodger is actually a red herring. The #YesAllWomen tweets were railing in general against men's sense of sexual entitlement.

Every woman has a story about an icky man. It boils all the way down to the subtle ways men treat women, perhaps without even realising it. It's the difference between wanted and unwanted attention.

Not all men are to blame, but yes, all women have to negotiate their way through a male-oriented world that can at times make them feel vulnerable or intimidated or just plain disgusted.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

I'm happy to go for a run in the evening but my wife is not. Men twice her age have leaned over her with nudges and winks in a supposedly professional workplace.

Are they trying to live vicariously through their inappropriate compliments? The line was way back there, buddy.

I'm ill-equipped to comment with much insight on this topic. It seems I've been strolling obliviously through my male universe without ever pausing to question things from a female perspective.

For that reason alone #YesAllWomen has been a positive moment in the fickle history of internet fads.

It has shone a spotlight on to something that deserves to be discussed in the open.

I never realised there were so many creeps among us.

Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Not all men, but yes, all women probably know what I'm talking about. I'm sure we can do better.

A little bit of respect goes a long way.

Marcel Currin is a Tauranga writer and poet

Save

    Share this article

Latest from Bay of Plenty Times

Bay of Plenty Times

Winter fire warning for seniors after Waihī death

19 Jun 06:00 AM
Bay of Plenty Times

Meth, ammunition, homemade taser seized in dawn police raid

19 Jun 04:30 AM
Bay of Plenty Times

League player's preventable death prompts coroner's warning of 'run it straight' trend

18 Jun 11:35 PM

Jono and Ben brew up a tea-fuelled adventure in Sri Lanka

sponsored
Advertisement
Advertise with NZME.

Latest from Bay of Plenty Times

Winter fire warning for seniors after Waihī death

Winter fire warning for seniors after Waihī death

19 Jun 06:00 AM

People aged 60-plus accounted for 55% of all house fire deaths over the past 5 years.

Meth, ammunition, homemade taser seized in dawn police raid

Meth, ammunition, homemade taser seized in dawn police raid

19 Jun 04:30 AM
League player's preventable death prompts coroner's warning of 'run it straight' trend

League player's preventable death prompts coroner's warning of 'run it straight' trend

18 Jun 11:35 PM
The Bay of Plenty town with second highest pokie spend

The Bay of Plenty town with second highest pokie spend

18 Jun 11:15 PM
Help for those helping hardest-hit
sponsored

Help for those helping hardest-hit

NZ Herald
  • About NZ Herald
  • Meet the journalists
  • Newsletters
  • Classifieds
  • Help & support
  • Contact us
  • House rules
  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms of use
  • Competition terms & conditions
  • Our use of AI
Subscriber Services
  • Bay of Plenty Times e-edition
  • Manage your print subscription
  • Manage your digital subscription
  • Subscribe to Herald Premium
  • Subscribe to the Bay of Plenty Times
  • Gift a subscription
  • Subscriber FAQs
  • Subscription terms & conditions
  • Promotions and subscriber benefits
NZME Network
  • Bay of Plenty Times
  • The New Zealand Herald
  • The Northland Age
  • The Northern Advocate
  • Waikato Herald
  • Rotorua Daily Post
  • Hawke's Bay Today
  • Whanganui Chronicle
  • Viva
  • NZ Listener
  • Newstalk ZB
  • BusinessDesk
  • OneRoof
  • Driven Car Guide
  • iHeart Radio
  • Restaurant Hub
NZME
  • About NZME
  • NZME careers
  • Advertise with NZME
  • Digital self-service advertising
  • Book your classified ad
  • Photo sales
  • NZME Events
  • © Copyright 2025 NZME Publishing Limited
TOP