From a non-paying family's perspective, there are certainly reasons not to pay. Not only because of other school costs, but the cost of basic living food, housing and power are so out of kilter with income that many families even with a double income struggle to keep heads above water.
Yet schools have a fair point too. Without the money they can provide only vanilla education. For a rich and varied one, parent donations are essential.
Those who really cannot afford to pay because they are too poor still deserve the right to a rich education. I like to think that if my family fell on hard times there would be buffers in the school community to make sure my kids didn't slip through the cracks too. But there should be structures in place to fairly income test parents. If they can't give cash, maybe they can offer time or skills. To simply not prioritise the fees is not fair to the 60 per cent of parents who do budget for them.
And if we are paying, then schools must be accountable to us. We should have a say in where the money goes. They should also be held accountable to our children. One in five New Zealand children leave school without basic literacy and numeracy skills, the Government told us when they introduced National Standards. It does not seem we are getting our money's worth.
If parents are going to tighten their belts, then schools need to pull their socks up too.