With my own children, a similar routine is followed - at meal times we talk about the day and try new foods. The idea that food is both comforting and fun has currency with Helen and me; both of us have come from families who relished cooking and eating.
Mum tells me I was at the kitchen bench "helping" from the time I could climb on to a stool, and when Nana Emett gave me my first cookbook at age 13 it set me on the path of following recipes, experimenting with flavours and learning to use produce that was plentiful and seasonal.
Baking was something that I did often and was encouraged to do by both Mum and Dad, probably to keep me out of trouble more than anything else. I have a very sweet tooth so, naturally, I took easily to baking all manner of cakes and slices, and I kept my brother and sister very well-fed.
The Waipa River, which ran the length of the farm, and the "home farm" gullies, were where I honed my skills with a gun and a knife, taking interested steps towards preparing and eating what I'd hunted. Duck shooting and fishing with my grandfather, father and extended family was an important ritual. I clearly remember the excitement every duck-shooting season when Uncle Bert came up our driveway in his old Vanguard with a dinghy strapped precariously to the roof, guns, a dog, a pocketful of jelly beans, and a retort of: "Whose father are you?", which would leave us kids gazing at him totally perplexed. He was a good shot and an even better storyteller.
As a teenager, I was excited by hunting and fishing in the Waikato region and beyond, with my initial thoughts about what I wanted do in life focused on being a ranger. Roaming the bush or, at the very least, doing something that involved the great outdoors was uppermost in my mind.
So it was a sharp turn of events that led me, after qualifying as a chef in Hamilton, to spend the next 20 years of my life between Auckland, London, New York, Los Angeles and Melbourne working indoors and standing for ridiculously long hours under artificial light at stainless-steel kitchen benches in often hot and cramped conditions.
The outdoors, it has to be said, became a distant memory. There was an upside, of course; I'd trained as a chef because food was a magnet that I couldn't ignore, and the idea of a job that was transportable around the world (all you needed was a good set of knives and a solid work ethic) held appeal to the travelling spirit inside me.
Before long I was in some of the most innovative (but testing) kitchens in the world.
This cookbook has been a long time in the making. Although this collection of recipes and notes has been built up over more than 20 years, the genesis of this subject - meat - goes back to life on the farm, where the animal in the paddock had a direct correlation to the food prepared in our kitchen and what enticed our palates.