• Be overt at looking at your watch.
• If that doesn't work, write a note along the lines of: 'I'm at my desk when you're ready', or 'I'm sorry, I have to go. I'm happy to reschedule', leave the note under their nose and walk out.
• If they complain because you've walked out, it's back to 'courageous conversation' time. Maybe they've never thought about the consequences. Sometimes you come across egomaniacs who think no-one else's time is as important as theirs - that may be true but it's not the point!
• A good manager is profit-driven. Before you start trying to re-educate your boss, assemble some data. Time-log how much time you spend waiting over a couple of weeks. Work out the cost to the company of your wasted time, in dollars. Also list the projects waiting attention. Then give your manager a cost/benefit analysis.
I'm not suggesting mutiny - I am encouraging honest communication and efficient use of everyone's time.
It's your client?
If you're a salesperson you may be thinking, 'That's all very well, but what if the person taking calls is a client?'
You have to make a decision based on all the factors (including your own confidence levels), but if you're prepared to make a stand, a variation of the same techniques can still work. I've known of top salespeople who, after the third interruption, have said to the client, 'It seems that now is not a very good time. When can we reschedule that will give us uninterrupted time?'
On the other hand, sometimes you decide to grin and bear it. I can think of one client who does this to me. His office calls are usually held, but he leaves his mobile on nearly all the time. At times I'm irritated but I remind myself that when I need to reach him I can almost always get him on his mobile if I've got a quick question. And in this case, he's paying me!
Robyn Pearce (known as the Time Queen) runs an international time management and productivity business, based in New Zealand. Get your free report 'How To Master Time In Only 90 Seconds' and ongoing time tips at gettingagrip.com.