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<i>Bob McCoskrie:</i> Family solidarity key to lower youth crime

3 Oct, 2006 05:18 AM5 mins to read

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When 14-year-old Ngatai Rewiti was sent to prison for throwing rocks onto the motorway at Otahuhu and killing a motorist, it was really just a short-term solution. It was a possible deterrent to copycats, but it didn't deal with the root causes.

Sources close to Rewiti's family contacted Family First
expressing concern about the family environment in which he was being raised.

Drug and alcohol abuse, family breakdown and dysfunctional parenting were major reasons behind Rewiti's increasingly bad behaviour - and contributing factors to this senseless crime.

There is little doubt society is becoming more violent. News bulletins are regularly full of horrific and brutal murders - eight in South Auckland in the past three months.

Police are voicing their concern at the increase in violence on the streets. And, as reported last week, the level of threats and violence in schools is worsening.

But the response of the Government has been simply to throw money at the problem. Under a 26-point action plan, $10 million will fund 22 youth workers in South Auckland to fix gang problems and street violence.

They will be charged with reducing boredom among young people, believed to be a leading factor behind child and youth crime and youth gang involvement.

The state will also provide temporary beds for people as young as 10 picked up by the police during the night - 24-hour childcare provided by the police.

In Christchurch, $12 million was spent on a project between CYFS and the Corrections Department where recidivists aged 14 to 17 worked with social workers to understand what motivated their crimes. The result? Only 28 per cent of the participants remained offence-free in the timeframe covered by the evaluation.

Each offender cost $45,000 - yet, despite these poor results, CYFS is extending the programme to include children as young as 10.

And the Government is spending $7 million on early intervention services for teenage parents, including a programme called Roots of Empathy, in which a parent brings a baby into the classroom so children can learn about the child's development stages, needs, and communication.

There are clearly some benefits from some of these programmes. But all this funding, and all this work, is missing a key point: marriage matters. And families matter.

The Heritage Foundation, an influential American research institute, says an analysis of social science literature over 30 years shows that the rise in violent crime parallels the rise in families abandoned by fathers.

A state-by-state analysis indicated that a 10 per cent increase in the percentage of children living in single-parent homes led to a 17 per cent increase in juvenile crime.

Are all children from solo parented homes criminals? No.

Does marriage necessarily prevent crime - no again. Crime has always existed. But time after time, research shows that a mother's strong affectionate attachment to her child and the father's authority and involvement in raising his children are great buffers against a life of crime.

The Heritage Foundation found that criminal behaviour has its roots in habitual deprivation of parental love and affection going back to infancy.

While the finger often gets pointed at certain racial groups, the data shows that the real variable is not race but family structure. It's just that the incidence of broken families is much higher in the racial groups often cited.

Despite the evidence, our Government continues to undermine and weaken the defence of the traditional family structure through legislation.

It does so by by decriminalising prostitution, equating non-marriage relationships with marriage, and allowing teenagers to get an abortion without the parents being informed. And teaching kids how to put on a condom, but not to exercise self-control. And by encouraging both parents to be in the workforce, funding childcare centres to raise your pre-schooler but not funding the parent themselves, and making out-of-wedlock parenting a better economic alternative to marriage.

So the Government contributes to the growth of violent crime.

Marriage is good for a nation. Scientific research is unanimous that marriage increases the likelihood that fathers have good relationships with their children and lowers the risk of alcohol and substance abuse, domestic violence and child abuse.

Conversely, parental divorce or non-marriage appears to increase children's risk of school failure, the risk of suicide, psychological distress, and most significantly, delinquent and criminal behaviour.

So many young offenders are coming from families where there is family breakdown, the absence of a father and parenting difficulties, violence, and unemployment issues.

A logical start would be to extend the sentencing of young criminals to their families - to assist them and place requirements on them. A family approach. To deal with only the young offender without confronting the family issues is band-aid treatment.

Ultimately, however, we need to promote and strengthen marriage as an institution.

Violent crime starts at home and it will continue to increase as long as we downplay the importance and significance of having two parents, a mum and a dad, committed to each other for life.

* Bob McCoskrie, national director of Family First, has been a community worker for 12 years and is founder and chairman of a trust working with at-risk youth in South Auckland.

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