An opinion piece by Shelley Bridgeman on hot house parenting, Are you raising over-achievers?, was recently published on nzherald.co.nz. It referenced the Baby Signs programme as an example of this type of parenting. Far from the truth, the Baby Signs programme is based on over a decade of
In defence of Baby Signs
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Also, like other signing parents we knew when our daughter was hungry, tired, scared and often when she was happy or unhappy. Once, after a nappy change she signed "nappy", "all done". I replied in my usual way, "Yes, we've changed your nappy, it's all done." She then continued to sign "nappy", "all done". A little perplexed at this, I decided to take her signs literally and I peeked into her nappy. Her signs, it turns out, were signalling her discomfort at her nappy needing to be changed - again.
As educators, we are passionate about families using the Baby Signs program as a way to understand their babies. If keen to try, start when your child is at a stage they can sign back to you, generally six-months and able to wave "bye-bye". Choose a
sign, make one up, or use one of ours like "milk"; open your hand then close, open again and close. Then sign consistently, always in conjunction with the word. Repetition is the key, so when the opportunity arises for the use of the sign and word, ensure you repeat it.
If wondering, can signing make a baby talk late - or less? Dr Acredolo and Dr Goodwyn wondered this too. Before the release of their bestseller book, Baby Signs - How to Talk to your Baby Before they Could Talk, they conducted a study sponsored by American's National Institute of Health; which proved the opposite. Babies were developing language at a faster rate than average. This result was unexpected and as Dr. Acredolo discusses, not the embodiment of the program,
"There's no doubt in our minds that the most important message for parents to know is that signing will help you and your baby connect in a richer way," she says.
"The social and emotional benefits to the family are really the most important advantage of signing with your baby."
After nearly 30 years in existence, this type of parenting will never be a fad, rather an unassuming approach to understanding your baby.
- Janine Burden, Director of Baby Signs New Zealand