Managing people may mean having to suppress your natural personality - it's something managers need to be aware of. Mr Sutton may have free rein with jokes, hugs and calling women "Sweetie" outside the workforce, but you have to be a different person in the office.
Managing people also takes a fair bit of intuition, including when your treatment of a person is not appreciated.
It takes a huge amount of courage to bring a complaint against a boss, especially one as popular as Mr Sutton. And while Mr Sutton's transgressions were not enough for State Services Commissioner Iain Rennie to have dismissed him, the investigation found that Sutton's conduct "did not always meet the standard expected of public service leaders".
But to go this far, there must have been a pattern of behaviour that was unacceptable.
Hopefully, between now and Mr Sutton's departure on January 31, his good-guy nature will mean the complainant's work life will be as pleasant as possible, and she won't be vilified for speaking up.