There is a mailing list for the group so if you are a woman living alone who is keen on some social connection with other women, get in touch. There is a diverse spectrum of women in the group, ranging in age from 30s to 70-plus, from a variety of backgrounds and places. It is wonderful to see the connections that have already been made with women getting together for coffee, walks and bike rides, gardening and even some cinema outings. I am looking forward to seeing what else unfolds. It is amazing what we can achieve when we do it together.
Speaking of achievements, I couldn’t miss this opportunity to offer up my heartfelt thanks to Midweek master and community champion Paul Brooks who is setting sail on another adventure.
I have had the distinct pleasure in my nearly 20 years at the helm of the Women’s Network to work with some wonderful Midweek editors and writers. Paul has been there for about 15 of them and has seen me through the highs and lows of community work — thankfully there have been many more high points — and has always been available when I have needed to chat or simply to share what I reckon is a neat idea for a story. His encouragement of my writing in the form of this regular column to you all has been so affirming and personally meaningful to me. There have been times when I wonder why I do it, especially when I feel I need to tackle writing about some of the hard stuff, and Paul always steps in with sagacity and urges me on. He is probably one of the few people who has seen me when it’s tough and I am incredibly grateful to have him on my cheerleading team.
Working in the community relies on building relationships, cultivating them into meaningful ones, and that takes time and effort, Paul does this brilliantly. His easy-going interview style and genuine enthusiasm for hearing a good story — and listening to it too — is what makes Paul incomparable. I have witnessed many a nervous interviewee relax with ease in his company, with insightful questions that enable personal experiences to form their own unique human-interest story for us all to enjoy reading about.
Good news is so important in a time when mainstream newspapers deliver us the harsher realities on their front pages, not to mention the pages in between. Paul has been able to share some of his personal commentary and observations about the headline issues of the day in his Front Bit editorial and as a result has ended up with his own “special” following of commentators.
Being in the news or on the fringes of it isn’t for the faint-hearted. Thankfully, Paul has the heart of an ox and our community is all the better for it. The relationships, the stories, and the repository of our community’s social history remains, with many more stories yet to unfold. Who knows, some of it might even end up in a Brooks book. Whatever happens next, I will always be pretty darn happy that I got to be on this Midweek ride with Mister B.