After many years of working in mental health I have seen far too much attention on where people are encouraged to find closure and seek answers in the past, and yet the only thing the past can give us is understanding of the present.
The next step from understanding is transcending those old stories. When the outside world encroaches on my inner world, and it does, I now experience this very differently than I did even six months ago. There is a certain process and filter that automatically kicks in when I think less and feel more.
This didn't come naturally to me and I had to re-learn and re-teach myself to do this. I had to practise being what was fundamentally me, in spite of any conditioning.
Sound crazy? What I think is MORE crazy is responding the same way every day and expecting something else to miraculously emerge! When we know that what we seek is not seekable because it's already in us and that we've simply buried it in a whole lot of past experiences then life can start to flow a bit smoother.
My workshops touch on this. I like to think of my mindset coaching as reminding people of the layers beneath the pain and hurts, because there is a current that's running consistently through us that when experienced will take us home to joy, peace, and freedom, irrespective of what's happening in our lives externally.
If you would like to put your name down to learn more about this through either one to one coaching or workshops please contact me:
www.carlascoachingforhealth.com or find me on Facebook: Holistic Coaching - By Conscious Design.