Despite having lived in Whanganui since 1959 and being the driver of numerous projects including Whanganui's first Māori language pre-school Te Heti Te Kohanga Reo in Castlecliff in 1983, she remained modest and respectful that Whanganui was not her tūrangawaewae, her standing place.
"I'm not originally from here and I know to go safely when entering someone else's region," she said.
Her words resonated with me and I thought of them again when I read GJ Moles' letter.
There is arrogance in lobbying for change before first thoroughly exploring existing structures.
Coming from Christchurch, where the council operates a very successful three-bin recycling system, I wondered why Whanganui did not have something similar.
That was before I discovered the Whanganui Resource Recovery Centre – a place where an efficient system allows you to recycle anytime and because it is not next to a landfill, there is no awful smell.
The award-winning centre in Maria Place effectively deals with over 3000 tonnes of plastic, steel, aluminium, glass, paper and green waste each year and that is only a part of what it does.
For those who can't get there, the Whanganui District Council runs a monthly pick-up service which you can apply for online or request an application form.
If you haven't been there yet – check it out, newbies.