Short of killing someone, it's hard to think of something more serious, and therefore difficult to know why Malaysia could have received mixed messages from the Ministry of Foreign Affairs about the diplomat's status.
Malaysia is always clear that it will prosecute aberrant behaviour within its boundaries and for visitors to stick to its rules. We should be too.
Apparently the Malaysians were under the impression New Zealand had been comfortable with allowing Mr Rizalman to face a military court in Malaysia.
The Malaysian government can sort this matter out quickly by making Muhammad Rizalman bin Ismail return to New Zealand.
For the New Zealand government, it must always be more important to protect its own citizens and ensure crimes against them will be investigated, prosecuted and, if need be, punished than maintain a set of rules.
If that doesn't happen, the rules are archaic and need an overhaul. Diplomatic immunity is not the same as impunity.