It was shortly after World War II (in which she served three years in communications) that she met and married Ron Girdler, who suggested they move to New Zealand. She and Ron had no children, but Lena was much loved by the numerous youngsters for whom she made coconut ice and chocolate fudge.
The couple had been married less than 20 years when Ron died, but Lena continued to play an active role in her adopted community, including as an avid bridge player (until arthritis made it difficult for her to hold her cards,) and a supporter of the Salvation Army and the RSA.
As a youngster she had been a Girl Guide and had had a lot to do with Red Cross, Barbara said, and she was well travelled, whilst single and with Ron after her marriage.
Her friend, she added, had been a very well educated, prim and proper lady.