He also served with the RAAF during WWII, piloting Liberator bombers based in Darwin, surviving two tropical storms, twice being shot down, and a 'dead stick' landing in Darwin after his aircraft ran out of fuel.
Plan A had been to abandon the plane, but one of the crew had lost his parachute, Ray declaring that if one stayed aboard the bomber, all would stay.
In 2008, having lost his wife of 60 years, and his only daughter, he moved to Queenstown, where he joined the RSA and the Senior Citizens' Club - he is now the Kaitaia Aero Club's oldest member - and met recently retired Colleen.
"I was waiting for someone to talk to and in she walked," he said.
They soon bought a caravan so she could show him New Zealand, and three or four months later they finally reached Colleen's home town, Kaitaia, having seen "just about every inch" of the country and meeting "just about everyone."
The couple phoned family in the Far North in advance, inviting them to "polish the wedding bells," and the couple were married a few days later.
Ray, who actually reached 100 years yesterday, was feted in the appropriate fashion on Saturday, with pride of place for the Australian flag and singing of the Australian national anthem, while the traditional congratulatory cards were received from both Australia and New Zealand's prime ministers and governors-general, and the Queen.