Mr Thompson said he had been told by a councillor that any sealing would be "miles down the track" and that there would be "meetings," although the council letter demanded a decision by July 31.
"To let it get to this stage without any sort of consultation is cray," Mr Steed said.
"We won't be signing anything, we won't be shifting, and we won't be paying."
Mrs Thompson said she doubted that 75 per cent of property owners would agree to pay, but in the meantime she and her family were under extreme stress.
"We can't afford this," she said.
"If the road is sealed we will have to move. We won't be able to stay here. Wouldn't you think the council would at least talk to us before it put us through this?"
She was aware of other roads that had been sealed with property owner contributions, but the sums involved had been very much smaller.
Mayor John Carter said no one could force anyone to pay their share of sealing a road in one lump sum, but if 75 per cent of those on Bell Rd agreed the council could quite lawfully strike a targeted rate, which all would have to pay.
He wasn't familiar with the specifics of Bell Rd, but said he would be looking into it.