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Benevolence alive, well

Gisborne Herald
14 Jun, 2023 10:25 AMQuick Read

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Arriving at the local supermarket, I encountered a young fella who had just finished shopping and was heading back to his car. He held out his hand, saying “Here’s something to buy lunch for you and your wife” (or words to that effect). In his hand was $15.
I must say
I was taken aback — this sort of thing doesn’t happen every day — I didn’t have time to think it through, I patted him on the shoulder, accepted the gift and thanked him, and he was gone. This act of kindness was witnessed by a nearby taxi driver, and we had a chat about it.
Afterwards, several thoughts passed through my mind. Was this a spontaneous act or pre-planned? Why did he choose me, did I look like I was down on my heels? Should I have declined the gift because there are others more needy or deserving? If I’d declined, would he have been offended; would he have picked someone else?
The thought of an ulterior motive didn’t enter my mind; I’m sure it was a genuine gesture, and it made our day. This incident exemplifies the true spirit of a caring society and restores our faith in human nature.
My wife and I make regular donations to various local activities simply because we can afford to do so, and derive pleasure from doing it; we do not expect anything else.
I recall the story of the widow’s mite; a lesson for us all.
We enjoyed our lunch — thank you kind sir!

Octogenarians

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