Mrs Lethaby said the group's biennial candle lighting ceremony brings people together to remember loved ones and anyone affected by suicide is welcome to attend the next service on November 14.
"People may choose to do a reading or share a thought and then we light four big candles. The first represents grief where the pain of losing a loved one is intense. The second is for courage to confront sorrow and comfort yourself. The third represents the memory of loved ones and the times you laughed, the times you cried. The fourth is for a life of love.
"Everyone then lights a tealight candle from one of the four big candles and we put them on a shelf. It looks stunning. We have a reflection time and speak on the seven steps of coping with loss. There is a PowerPoint presentation with photos and first names of people's loved ones. At the end of the ceremony we write our loved ones' names on helium balloons and release them en masse outside which looks absolutely stunning."
People may think their loss occurred too recently or too long ago so they should not attend the ceremony, Mrs Lethaby said.
"It doesn't matter if it happened yesterday or 100 years ago, everyone is welcome. We are so grateful to Dempsey and Forrest who are absolutely fantastic. They have got our back all the time and often refer people to us."
The candle lighting ceremony is at 7pm on Tuesday, November 14, at Dempsey and Forrest funeral home. It is a non-denominational service. Contact Bonnie Lethaby on 343 7573 or James Forrest on 349 0202 for more information.
The support group's 24-hour helpline number is 027 684 3386 (texts are welcome). People can also contact Bonnie Lethaby on 343 7573. The support group's website is www.bereaved-by-suicide.org.nz
WHERE TO GET HELP:
If you are worried about your or someone else's mental health, the best place to get help is your GP or local mental health provider. However, if you or someone else is in danger or endangering others, call 111.
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DEPRESSION HELPLINE: 0800 111 757
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