That moment you say your "I dos" divorce is likely the last thing on your mind - however, for these women, there is nothing more appealing.
In a new thread on the secret sharing app Whisper desperately unhappy wives have revealed why they feel they have to stay with their husbands despite no longer loving them.
Taking advantage of the app's anonymity these dissatisfied women have spared no details in their shocking confessions, according to Daily Mail.
For many the only thing keeping them tied down is the fact they don't want to disrupt their children's lives.
For others they avoid divorce because they are afraid that they will not find any one else and will grow old alone.
Some women have found a way to have their cake and eat it too staying in a hum drum marriage while enjoying a fling on the side.