Helena McAlpine doesn't want to be remembered as the girl who died from cancer.
She wants to be remembered as the "good-time party girl who's a highly irresponsible adult - with a heart of gold though".
"I don't ever want to thought of as being a bad human being. I want to be thought of as being a good neighbour and a good friend and a loving, caring, parent."
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