Much of the talk is about families: wars within them; casualties of love; bewildering glimpses never understood; imprinted and inescapable patterns; the way they tutor you in how to be alone. It's a cascade of memories which allows Liam to start saying goodbye and sorry to his own parents.
Throughout the narrative, the pair search for - and sometimes find - those whom they've lost. That includes themselves and the opportunities they seized or shrank from. They sit disorientated and frightened in a hotel basement, or stare into a mirror, looking "found out".
It's a relentlessly intense story, told in brief, hectic sentences and chapters like someone gasping for breath, yet lilting with Irish cadences. And it's much concerned with stories themselves, how they define us, how people use them like food or makeup or sunglasses.
"That's all we are, only stories."
Anne Enright called Hamilton "a major international writer who just happens to have grown up in Ireland". This is a novel both specific and symbolic, elegiac and celebratory.
It takes you by the arm and holds you still.
Every Single Minute by Hugo Hamilton (Fourth Estate $32.99).
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