Man finds good Samaritan who saved his life

Jonny Benjamin, right, meets Neil Laybourn.
Jonny Benjamin, right, meets Neil Laybourn.

A man searching for the stranger who stopped him ending his life has found the Good Samaritan.

Jonny Benjamin, 26, had tried to jump from London's Waterloo Bridge in January 2008 because he was struggling to cope with schizoaffective disorder, but was stopped by a passer-by who helped to change his mind.

Mr Benjamin started his campaign exactly six years after the incident, so he could thank the stranger. He named the search Find Mike because he had forgotten the man's name in his distressed state.

Soon, #FindMike was trending worldwide on social media, and the campaign, in collaboration with the charity Rethink Mental Illness, was boosted by TV, radio and newspaper interviews.

When Neil Laybourn's fiancé alerted him to Mr Benjamin's story, he knew immediately that he was the passer-by Jonny was looking for.

"I was so pleased to see how well Jonny was doing, I had thought about him over the years and had always hoped he was OK," the 31-year-old personal trainer said.

Speaking about the incident, he said: "I didn't feel it was that big a deal, I did what anyone would do. I wasn't trying to fix his problems that day, I just listened. Hand on heart that Jonny is one of the nicest people I have ever met, it's brilliant to see him smiling again.

"We'll definitely stay in touch," he added.

Rethink Mental Illness announced the news on Twitter with a photo of the pair captioned: "We #foundmike! *Huge* thank you to everyone who shared the #findmike campaign, you made THIS happen".

The photo was taken when the men were reunited on Tuesday.

Mr Benjamin, who is now a mental health campaigner, said: "I feel like I've won the lottery - I'm totally elated. It means the world to me to finally have the opportunity to say thank you.

"It's as though I've come full circle and that chapter of my life has now closed. He's such a warm, genuine person - everyone should have a friend like Neil."

Mr Benjamin said he hopes his story will give others struggling with mental illness some encouragement to take Mr Laybourn's lead.

"It really shows how the simple act of listening can be a huge support to someone who struggling with their mental health and we can all learn from that," Mr Benjamin said.

Paul Jenkins, CEO of Rethink Mental Illness said: "The overwhelming public support for Jonny and his search has been incredible. Every single person who shared his appeal has not only helped find 'Mike', but has also helped to open up millions of conversations about mental health.

He continued: "We don't talk about these issues enough, but the more we do, the more we break down the stigma that surrounds them."

Where to get help

Youth services: (06) 3555 906

Youthline: 0800 376 633

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Whatsup: 0800 942 8787 (noon to midnight)

The Word

Depression helpline: 0800 111 757 (24-hour service)

Rainbow Youth: (09) 376 4155

CASPER Suicide Prevention

If it is an emergency and you feel like you or someone else is at risk, call 111.

- UK Independent

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