Women outraged by 'humiliating' marriage scheme

By Andrew Buncombe

DELHI - Women protesters marched through the streets of Kathmandu in their hundreds after the Government announced a "humiliating" scheme to offer financial incentives for men to marry widows.

The scheme has been deemed necessary by the Government of Nepal in part because of the 10-year-long civil war that claimed up to 13,000 lives and widowed many women.

Such women are widely ostracised and discriminated against in the conservative country.

In such circumstances, the Government said that by offering grants of 50,000 Nepali rupees ($973), unmarried men would be persuaded to wed widows to help re-integrate them into society.

But campaigners say the scheme would not only turn women into cash cows but would be open to abuse by human traffickers. They warn that in Nepal women are traded for as little as 5000 rupees.

Lily Thapa, founder of the group Women for Human Rights (WHR) and one of the organisers of the rally, said: "It's totally humiliating for the women. It's against our human rights."

Ms Thapa set up WHR after her husband was killed while serving with UN peacekeeping forces in 1991.

She said widows in Nepal were routinely discriminated against, particularly in rural areas, and were prevented from wearing colourful clothes or attending important events as they were considered bad luck.

She said the Government's proposal would not help the situation and would be open to abuse by traffickers.

The opposition Maoist political party has opposed the offer on similar grounds. Campaigners say the cash payments may encourage men to marry a widow only to abandon her once they had received the money.

They say the Government would do better to spend the money on projects to help educate and empower women in Nepal. Some say the money should be paid directly to the widows without any demand that they marry.

Yesterday, several hundred women marched through the country's capital waving banners that read: "We don't want government dowries" and: "Don't put a price on your mother". Women came from across the country, some complaining the proposed grants had made their lives harder as men were treating them differently.

Jayanti, 25, told the MyRepublica news website: "There are many of us who are young and want to remarry but our main concerns are our children," she said. "This provision is not enough to raise our children and provide them with proper education. Moreover, there is no guarantee that we will even get to use the money."

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