We all make bad decisions, some more serious than others.
But are we doing the best we can to help those who make the worst decisions get back on track? And, for those harmed by the choices of others, what can be done to combat New Zealand's high levels of sexual violence and ensure we can all live free from fear? Ours.co.nz looks at the issues.
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