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Deborah Coddington: Brutality and failure too often condoned

By Deborah Coddington
5:30 AM Sunday Jan 22, 2012
Triplet Hinekawa Topia died from a head injury. Photo / Supplied

Triplet Hinekawa Topia died from a head injury. Photo / Supplied

There is nothing to celebrate this week.

For twisted reasons, many are determined to make a hero out of Ben Hana, the Wellington vagrant known as Blanket Man, so ill he died suddenly last Sunday aged 54.

In Courtenay Place people gather to stare at the spot where Hana sat outside Burger King, wearing just a dirty loincloth with a blanket for warmth, often with his genitals exposed. An array of tributes and messages have been left. Now there's talk of a memorial, in tribute to him, in the form of a bronze blanket.

What sort of a world do we live in, where we consider spending good money on a sculpture for someone who, in the words of his own cousin Charles Hana, "came from a very good family. It wasn't as though he lived in poverty", instead of giving dollars to charitable organisations which work hard to keep people like Hana fed, and off the streets?

As for the outpouring of hypocrisy on Facebook, I'd like to know just what, exactly, all these people did for Ben Hana when he was alive. Yes, it's sad when anyone dies prematurely, but Hana's family tried repeatedly to look after him, and he cut himself off.

Glorifying vagrancy, as Occupy Wellington are now doing by cashing in on Hana's death, and calling on the capital's ratepayers to provide a (presumably rent-free) building for the homeless, and "make housing affordable" (whatever that means, again presumably free) is stupidity in the extreme.

Occupy protesters have lost the plot - if they ever had one. Initially, when they railed against taxpayer bailouts of failed finance companies, I supported them. Now they're like too much bosom in a bra - just not working. Time to take them out and separate them.

This week, we're supposed to celebrate the 100th anniversary of Captain Robert Falcon Scott's Terra Nova expedition to the South Pole. On all counts it was a monumental disaster. Spurred by ego, Scott died with his men. He hated Antarctica. His cruelty to animals, buying cheap, totally unsuitable ponies, was unspeakable, and his obstinate behaviour as a naval officer contributed to his perishing.

To cap it all, Roald Amundsen got there before him. Some may argue Scott's expedition was scientific, but historians exploring Britain's nationalism paint a different picture. Why do New Zealanders hero-worship this failed Brit?

Just in case we thought the week might brighten, someone called for a commission of inquiry into child bashing. This because yet another baby has died of "non-accidental" head injuries - Hinekawa Topia, one of triplets. This just goes on and on and, as I wrote in North & South recently, I now call it New Zealand's car alarm syndrome. When a car alarm goes off, instead of investigating who's stealing the car, we wish someone would stop the terrible noise.

Similarly, in some dreadful families, when the baby won't stop crying, instead of nursing him or her or finding out what's wrong, some thug, usually the current boyfriend and often as the mother looks the other way, shuts it up. Permanently.

Michael Laws is right, even if he does want to shoot me when he clears out our newsroom with a shotgun. In this country there is a violent underbelly that doesn't care about its children.

I don't know what we can do about it, but I sure as hell know a commission of enquiry will make no difference because so long as these people go on having babies they don't want, they'll continue killing them because they don't want to know anything. It's a sickness of spirit.

Finally, in a week of glums, NZ On Air thinks we should be shielded from viewing controversial documentaries just before an election, lest they affect the way we vote, or damage the agency's non-political reputation. How pathetically gutless these quasi-media organisations are becoming. I guess this is the price paid for taking taxpayer funding - devils and long spoons always go together.

By Deborah Coddington

- Herald on Sunday

Mams (New Zealand) | 01:17PM Sunday, 22 Jan 2012
Hi Deborah, I agree with your column. I did not read Michael Laws column, but a close friend of mine (an Anglican minister) once said to me that on his return from many years of mission work in Eastern Africa and the Middle East that the impression he got was that in New Zealand, in contrast to the places he and his family had been, we simply hate children.

Most of us love our own children but overall children are seen as a kind of excruciatingly annoying impediment to the lives of adults. I have often thought about that comment. I don't know if he is right.I don't think the word "hate" really applies. But then again, maybe there is a general malaise in New Zealand that relegates children to the margins and adult concerns and pursuits to the centre.

He was talking about the New Zealand culture - not government per se, and not restricted to one ethnicity either. Maybe there is a connection between that malaise and this terrible string of child killings. I don't know but it is confronting to think about it.
Gavin Whitelaw (Italy) | 01:17PM Sunday, 22 Jan 2012
You're all mixed up, Debbers, as usual. Sure it's a bit bizzarre to go all weepy over the Blanket Man - but people go weapy over dolphins, robins and all kinds of things - it's a sign of empathy and not very rational, I guess, but almost the definition of being human.

In contrast, it's perfectly rational and, indeed, good for everyone if a cheap or free building be provided for the homeless to sleep dry and warm. That's not glorifying vagrancy - it's helping the unfortunate and the fortunate at the same time - fewer blanket people lying around outside Burger King is good all round.
"and 'make housing affordable' (whatever that means, again presumably free) is stupidity in the extreme." - sorry, but I can't agree with you on that one.

The meaning of 'affordable housing' is crystal clear to even the simplest among us and it's the job of the government to organise the economy so that everyone can afford housing of one kind or another - and I don't mean sleeping under a blanket.
And remember the mediaeval concept of the wheel of fortune, little Deborah - it still applies. One day you could end up sleeping under a blanket on the street through no fault of your own.
Sam () | 01:17PM Sunday, 22 Jan 2012
Well said. And when we look at the problem properly, we must sheet home exactly where and how the problem started.

It was the aim of the communist/socialist movements in the 1960s and 70s to destroy the family unit. That way, they thought they could take over the world.
So who were the movers and shakers in these communist/socialist movements in NZ?

Some names readily spring to mind. Some of these people are still agitating today.
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